Directives!
This world, or maybe MY world, is the one all filled up with this category of people.
A few months back when I learnt about the 4 categories of people, it instantly came handy for me to recognize the trait and kind of people and put'em in some quadrant.
The four categories were - Directives, Supportive, Reclusive, Emotive.
The directive/supportive - opposites; Reclusive/emotive - opposite.
Not in the sense they will attract, but opposite that they wont stand an eye of each other.
Well, the world is full of such, and this is what is one dimension of what sometime comes into survival of life - the opposite trait person(S).
Being a 'S', I go along well with 'R' and a bit with 'E'.
And even if it's just one of all the wrong traits, there comes tough things - that the brain finds tough to juggle with.
I have Supportive trait, so as my Mum, as I feel....though there is a whole matrix to mark and find it. By far I have got that much of a sense to know what the person is, if he/she is around for many many years...
Then there is the opposite case, the directives, almost entire other half of the family...its sickening....
'D' Will be told each moment what to do, the already quite 'S' will do as said, and then will be scolded about not doing it as said, 'S' quite, 'D' shouting . .and the cycle goes on, when 'D' says, 'S' don't speak much. Well 'D', that's what is the case in the 'D' world with 'S', it's just the more of space to you to speak as you already have more of words to throw out....
The 'S', just had the burns inside, of being little rebel, to think all in the enormous brain...who just can't speak up, and never will be....and threatened if did......
all that comes out is trail of tears, tears ..just that plain salty water....
The world needs everyone, there is a need of people to be directive, they do have bigger foot prints and the bigger urge to give orders...'S' are the tender souls, and have no shame in following the orders, there still exist a clash, an non straight connecting line...that makes things tensed, terrible and then 'D' becomes destructive, of that tenderness, crushes a person....entire existence, thought, mind.....leaving a trail of burning rebellion....going deeper sometimes cause of those incurable diseases.....
Dear 'D', you are being respected, followed as per your 'orders' but then try to understand, it's entirely invisible but your behavior is soul crushing. - - Unheard 'S'.
I have started becoming ugly, less caring for me.
Letting it all go, as all that is to be heard is detestation....
Never a word of admiration...never... :'(
Not even try 'D', to admire, it's not the skill you carry, that will all be fake if ever there is...!
A few months back when I learnt about the 4 categories of people, it instantly came handy for me to recognize the trait and kind of people and put'em in some quadrant.
The four categories were - Directives, Supportive, Reclusive, Emotive.
The directive/supportive - opposites; Reclusive/emotive - opposite.
Not in the sense they will attract, but opposite that they wont stand an eye of each other.
Well, the world is full of such, and this is what is one dimension of what sometime comes into survival of life - the opposite trait person(S).
Being a 'S', I go along well with 'R' and a bit with 'E'.
And even if it's just one of all the wrong traits, there comes tough things - that the brain finds tough to juggle with.
I have Supportive trait, so as my Mum, as I feel....though there is a whole matrix to mark and find it. By far I have got that much of a sense to know what the person is, if he/she is around for many many years...
Then there is the opposite case, the directives, almost entire other half of the family...its sickening....
'D' Will be told each moment what to do, the already quite 'S' will do as said, and then will be scolded about not doing it as said, 'S' quite, 'D' shouting . .and the cycle goes on, when 'D' says, 'S' don't speak much. Well 'D', that's what is the case in the 'D' world with 'S', it's just the more of space to you to speak as you already have more of words to throw out....
The 'S', just had the burns inside, of being little rebel, to think all in the enormous brain...who just can't speak up, and never will be....and threatened if did......
all that comes out is trail of tears, tears ..just that plain salty water....
The world needs everyone, there is a need of people to be directive, they do have bigger foot prints and the bigger urge to give orders...'S' are the tender souls, and have no shame in following the orders, there still exist a clash, an non straight connecting line...that makes things tensed, terrible and then 'D' becomes destructive, of that tenderness, crushes a person....entire existence, thought, mind.....leaving a trail of burning rebellion....going deeper sometimes cause of those incurable diseases.....
Dear 'D', you are being respected, followed as per your 'orders' but then try to understand, it's entirely invisible but your behavior is soul crushing. - - Unheard 'S'.
I have started becoming ugly, less caring for me.
Letting it all go, as all that is to be heard is detestation....
Never a word of admiration...never... :'(
Not even try 'D', to admire, it's not the skill you carry, that will all be fake if ever there is...!
Very touching post ..
ReplyDeleteTh only thing i want to say is .. you are super cute.. you don't know how a great person you are ..so take very good care of yourself... You are indeed admirable for your special qualities... you possess.
Don't be sad... Be happy...
Your Brother.. :)
haha..thanks...but then..not all that i am is required anywhere.
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